July 8, 2009
Taking In The Good Stuff
Mother Nurture Rick Hanson, Ph.D., and Jan Hanson, L.Ac., 2005 Taking In the Good Stuff I get to the end of a long day and I feel just used up and sort of empty . You, like every mother - and many fathers, too - put out so much during the day that it s easy to get depleted: more is going out than is coming back in. And after awhile, it is natural to feel like you are running on empty. That s why it s so vital to keep putting back in your tank. We ve written a lot about how to replenish yourself with good nutrition and vitamins all posted on our website . Here, let s look at how to fill yourself back up emotionally. The key is to look for positive moments, and then take an extra few seconds to savor the experience and let it sink deeply into your emotional memory banks. It s as simple as that. This is especially important if a fair amount of the day to day experiences you re having are stressful or upsetting -- which is pretty typical for a parent of young children, even when there are also lots of wonderful, sweet times with the kids. Negative experiences get instantly recorded by the brain to help us survive, leaving a kind of residue in the mind - an internal mood or...